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When you are not in the room

When you are not in the room

What do people say about you when you are not in the room? Reminded of this from a recent post by Chip Conley on Wisdom Well around "EQ" Mentorship, where one question he recommends a mentor asks is: What five adjectives would you like co-workers to use when...

Insights and Coaching

Insights and Coaching

"InnSaei - to see from the Inside Out" - prior blog One of the most valued contributions clients gain from coaching is a simple and profound one. Insights. So, in the space of coaching, where do insights come from? Over many years of coaching, my beliefs around this...

Being forced to learn something new

Being forced to learn something new

I'm dictating this entire post rather than typing it. As I noted in yesterday's post, I have a strange injury to my left ring finger, which leaves me with difficulty in typing at any reasonable speed. Luckily, all that it takes to heal this is eight weeks with a...

An enforced pause

An enforced pause

So. Just before I flew to Cayman I somehow jammed a finger on my left hand and so the last joint won’t straighten. I can’t type on my laptop and I’m waiting to see an orthopaedist to see if it needs an urgent operation. Sometimes I’m not the most patient person and...

Trust yourself

Trust yourself

The most-read post on this site so far in 2020 is: "Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards". It begins with these thoughts: Learn from the past, analyse it, study it all you will so you can learn more about yourself, others, your...

Capture it on one page

Capture it on one page

Good to Great Visual Synopsis by Dani Saveker Over many years of facilitating leadership team meetings for clients, I've evolved a "less is more" process where the end result is captured on one page, even sometimes as succinct as one word. In: "Take the time to write...

In all seriousness-ness

In all seriousness-ness

A few weeks ago I was in conversation, where, as my friends know, I am often really serious. All of a sudden, I somehow started a statement with: "in all seriousness-ness", which caused the other person to burst into gales of laughter. For the rest of the conversation...

Nurturing relationships

Nurturing relationships

So this is a post on gratitude and about nurturing relationships, but I'm starting with a picture taken from a riverboat yesterday. Allow me to explain... I've just had a great work week, truly feeling I am doing the work I was born to do, really energised and feeling...

I’m running a business here

I’m running a business here

A French café, where customers are typically allowed to linger "I don't mean to be rude, but I'm running a business here and you've been sitting here for two hours. I'm the owner and these staff are expensive, you see"Owner of a coffee shop/cafe near London this week...

Do you leave enough space?

Do you leave enough space?

Over several years I have consciously created and curated my life such that space is a priority. Earlier this week I wrote in "Permission Granted" that: "henceforth, I will take at least one four hour chunk of time every other working week to be without any electronic...