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Beautiful Leadership
Integrity is also doing the right thing when everyone is watching
This morning I am travelling to meet a client, which means trains and tubes (London Underground), as well as walking into and around cafes and restaurants. Wearing masks has dropped right away in the UK. It seems that people follow social norms, so as more people...
When you focus on the past, that’s your ego
Last week, the Milwaukee Bucks won their first NBA title in 50 years, led by the stunning talent of 26-year-old Giannis Antetokounmpo. Now, watch this post-match interview for the full impact of such wisdom in one so young, which I capture in these anchors he shared:...
Can you help with “Turning the Tables”?
My awesome friend Kay Scorah, see her appearance on WhatComesNextLive here This is my friend Kay Scorah, who sometimes humorously calls herself "the Witch of Noticing". She is a wise woman indeed, as well as a force of !@$!@ nature and one of my absolute favourite...
Einstein and Inner Music
One area of beauty we can understand beyond rationality being music. Einstein often talked about such things. Yesterday I wrote about Einstein's five levels of cognitive prowess, in ascending order: SmartIntelligentBrilliantGeniusSimple Today I put it to you that...
Deep connections going beyond conventions
I'm deeply grateful for those deep connections that come to effortlessly blend business and friendship, they enrich my life in all facets. “I understand now that boundaries between noise and sound are conventions. All boundaries are conventions, waiting to be...
When it feels hard to listen to alternative views
When it feels hard to listen to alternative views, focus on listening and understanding. Thanks to Tom Goodwin for the clip from this blog from Morgan Hausel "The willingness to believe crazy things increases when it feels like the world is dangerous and falling...
What’s your Pawprint?
Pawprint offers this awareness, as well as suggestions to reduce our individual impact. My "Pawprint". Get yours at https://www.pawprint.eco/ Up until around 2017, I'd fly well over 100,000 miles per year, getting on well over 50 aircraft, with much of that being long...
Apricity – the warmth of the sun in Winter
Apricity - the warmth of the sun in Winter. Regular readers of this daily blog know how much I love beautiful language, words, their etymology This week am reminded of the word apricity, dervied from Latin and meaning the feeling of the warmth of the sun in Winter....
stoicism ≠ Stoicism
Stoicism is an increasingly well known philosophy dating back to ancient Rome (and Greece) and such key figures as Seneca, Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus. As we move nearly a year into the pandemic, and particularly here in Britain, we hear of people saying all kinds of...
Only Connect, then watch the ripples you create
"The Old Guard" (Photo courtesy of Netflix © 2020 ) I've flowed on a theme in recent days, from "Don’t be bland if you want to be remembered" to "Weirdness is a Superpower" and now "Only Connect". Taken as a piece, these three posts are about both choosing to stand...
Weirdness is a superpower
Weird IS a superpower. To that, if you ever feel yourself or your business being too bland, consider if the next step for you is to #BeMoreWeird. Yoda, Ed Percival. The master of Weird. #BeMoreYou #BeMoreWeird Yesterday I wrote: "Don’t be bland if you want to be...
Don’t be bland if you want to be remembered
I want to work with companies that have Eulogy Virtues, that will truly be remembered and missed, rather than bland. What will you be remembered for? "Blands", not Brands This week two clients messaged me, both thank me for the difference I had made for them...
Nothing is finished
Wabi Sabi: Nothing lasts, nothing is finished, nothing is perfect, and therein lies its beauty. Courtesy Sketchplanations, words from Wabi Sabi Simple An episode from a BBC radio series "The Death of Nuance" starts out with a list of "untranslatable" words, reminding...
Are you ready for #OpenLeadership?
#OpenLeadership is the secret to linking the new way of thinking about vision, strategy and leadership to deliver on strategy over time. #BeMoreYou #OpenLeadership "How long from when you put your Strategic Plan into action until it is not worth the paper it is...
An invincible summer
“In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger – something better, pushing right back.”~ Albert Camus This is...
Where is the wisdom we have lost in knowledge?
Where is the Life we have lost in living?Where is the wisdom we have lost in knowledge?Where is the knowledge we have lost in information?T.S. Eliot, "The Rock", Faber & Faber 1934. referenced in: "The Data, Information, Knowledge, Wisdom Chain:The Metaphorical...
The Hill we Climb
Amanda Gorman, the youngest inaugural poet in history, shared her poem, The Hill we Climb, at the inauguration of President Joe Biden. For there is always light,if only we’re brave enough to see it.If only we’re brave enough to be it.Amanda Gorman, The Hill we Climb...
Sharing a moment of beauty
I sense that many of us feel the need for distractions from the winter of Covid. Regular readers will know I focus on presence and, linked to that, often I look at beauty. One moment of beauty came at the weekend, when I went outside for a while and saw the wondrous...
Kokoro – align your heart, mind and spirit
Kokoro - The intersection of heart, mind, & spirit that's a person’s essence, soul, or center. Instead of being treated separately, they are one. In the bleak mid-winterFrosty wind made moan;Earth stood hard as iron,Water like a stone;Snow had fallen, snow on...
Be Kind, Be Kind, Be Kind
Three things in human life are important: The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind. - Henry James I write this for the last day of 2020. In the UK, I forecast that we will be mostly, if not fully locked down now for the next three...
Watching humans unfold their wings
“I want to teach because I love watching humans unfold their wings”. Wow, Carlos Santana, what a purpose you have.
The gift of Time
This reminds me of my late grandfathers old watch. One of my greatest treasures was the gift of time we spent together. What will you choose to do with the gift of time this holiday season? For many of us our Christmas holiday celebrations will be much simple, much...
“Look after me next time”
Look after me next time. Bacon roll from OnARoll Yesterday I took some time out during the day to drive to a Homebase store to "click and collect" something for my new house. As I was about to leave, about 3pm, I saw a food truck in the car park. Smart, I thought,...
This is what positive leadership looks like
Celebrating the positive leadership of Dani Coleman, Director, Hazard Management Cayman Islands. Dani Coleman, Director, Hazard Management Cayman Islands What is the secret to being one of the leaders of a 70+ person, cross-agency National Emergency Operations Centre...
Believe in people that you believe in
One of my favourite coaches, "Coach Pop" Believe in people that you believe in What does it feel like when someone tells you they believe in you, then shows you in their actions, then continues to support you. I think back to my own coaches, mentors, friends, family...
Attention, defined
Attention /əˈtɛnʃ(ə)n/ the appropriate amount of mental energy to solve a particular taskStephen Hick's definition of attention In the most recent latest WhatComesNextLive conversation, it was a pleasure to talk with Stephen Hicks. As a way of introducing his work and...
Bike rides, Democracy, Wellbeing
Two thoughts to start your week around physical and mental wellbeing. In London, we are now on day four of our second lockdown. Yes, the official announcement is that it is for 28 days, but few people believe that will hold, it will be a long winter. So, today, two...
Don’t shout at your children
Don't shout at your children. Parents who look after their stress levels won't be so likely to ever shout at their children. As a parent, one of the things I regret the most is occasions where I yelled at them for something. On occasions when that happened it was...
Turning the (USA) Ship Around
It is time to "turn the ship around" for the good ship United States of America. What role will you play in the crew? Will you take responsibility? As I write this on the morning (USA time) on Thursday November 5th, the final result of the Presidential election is...
Fashion is Fleeting but Style is Permanent
Fashion is fleeting, style is permanent. Linked In post from Mark Hogarth, 4th November 2020 Fashion is fleeting, style is permanent. I love this LI post from Mark Hogarth. Times change, quality endures. Much of my family heritage is from the Isle of Lewis, home of...
Only love can drive out hate
Only love can drive out hate “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” This morning I wake up to the US Election news. Whatever the final result my heart sinks to be reminded that around half of...
The Menu is Not the Meal
As we move into winter in this "Pandemic now", a key focus for us (and in my writing) is on "Proactive Resilience". Some thoughts today to support each of us with our resilience. I have been musing recently in my daily posts around layers of context and language. This...
Justice is what love looks like in public
Justice is about fairness. Even in this highly polarised world we live in (particularly around politics), I seek to, as Stephen Covey would say: "listen to understand". However, when something goes against my values, it breaches my boundaries and that means taking a...
Effortless effort
Find that place of "effortless effort". My friend and teacher Kate Dunne chose the name "Flow" when she started creating her space and practice around therapeutic movement. I am fascinated by the concept of Flow (past post here). Today is Pelé's 80th Birthday, which...
Positive Uncertainty
In the coming months we can all benefit from some positive Uncertainty. Image from the VUCA2.0 blog of Gideon Chen Zhiyuan We live in a VUCA world (Volatile, Uncertain, Complex, Ambiguous, as originated from the United States War College). The Leadership we need is...