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The silence was louder than noise
As I walked, I started listening to a novel, and within a few pages a line jumped out at me: the silence was louder than…
Shifting my Context from LEADERSHIP to INSIGHT
In 2022, the Context and the focus for myself and those who choose to work with me will be on INSIGHT.
Be More
A motto to live by taught to me by my late mentor Ed Percival is “Be More You”. I continue to aspire to live that,…
How sure are you?
A tiny language tip for you when leading a conversation. Instead of asking “are you sure?”, instead ask “how sure are you?”.
Reverse logic – get a Gas Guzzler
I love reverse logic and I love getting a deal. I think, then, that I will keep driving low mileages in my economical petrol car.
Christmas, tradition, making changes
Christmas is a time of traditions for every family, things are done a certain way year after year after year and there is much to…
Do one thing differently or one different thing today
Innovation is simply doing different things and doing things differently.
Will you have a regenerative holiday break?
For Christmas Day, I ask you to consider if you can have a regenerative holiday break rather than simply a sustainable one?
Elite Mindset – #OpenLeadership – learn from the Stoics
The more I learn, the further back into history I often go to learn from the ancients, including Buddhism, the Tao, Sufism and the Stoics.
The more I am absent the more I am present
One thought that flowed from me as we spoke was about the art of listening and being present: The more I am absent the more…
The cave you fear to enter holds the treasures you seek
(c) Sketchplanations This is the time of year when many of us take time to relax, and with that, watch movies classic and new. Many of the greatest movies of the last few decades owe much to Joseph Campbell and the hero's journey, as I wrote about in: "The Hero’s...
When you are interested everyone is interesting
I think it’s interest and care. I’m interested in whoever I’m speaking to. I care.
Elite Mindset – Leading with Belief
Belief influences our feelings, behaviours and actions. They guide our decisions. In this way, they determine our effectiveness as leaders.
In the face of Omicron uncertainty, focus on resilience
The spread of the Omicron variant of coronavirus is probably the most significant threat we’ve had since the start of the pandemic.
Elite Mindset – Be Connective
Knee joint with the ACL in the centre Muscles are our strength but we can only use them fully when we also focus on our Connective Tissue About 35 years ago, my life largely revolved around playing Basketball (with a little study and work in there somewhere!). At that...
Flowing with the flow
You know the phrase: "Going with the Flow"? Yesterday I felt like I was "flowing with the flow", allowing myself to be relaxed while various setbacks happened on a travel day, then seeking to "guide" the flow only subtly. My day was a regular monthly trip by train for...
Share your brilliance
Aside from my core client work (see my home page at tommccallum.com which shows the type of people I love to work with), I also mentor a number of individuals and businesses. Last week, in a mentoring session for two young people with a small local business, we agreed...
Curiosity + Openness = Serendipity
Yesterday I had a wonderful LunchClub conversation that ranged widely. As I listened, I realised that I could connect that person with numerous individuals from outside their existing networks with whom they could explore further on various topics. Earlier this week I...
Learning Balance
A personal and quite pensive post of lessons I learned around finding balance in life and work.
Elite Mindset – make time to then choose Intellect over Effort
I always recommend for leaders to take time to focus on the “M” in the formula above, to take time out from their busy schedule…
Elite Mindset – Be as curious as a Dog
Be as curious as a dog. To a dog every moment is confusing, every moment is like “I don’t know what is going on here,…
Elite Mindset – listen to your internal music
Their creative process is dominated by external noise as opposed to internal music. I love to listen and learn!
Value those who can think outside the box
You can practice, you can learn to think outside the box, to connect the dots in ways others would not have thought possible.
Are you getting enough of all seven types of rest?
The seven types of rest, then: Physical Rest, Mental Rest, Sensory Rest, Creative Rest, Emotional Rest, Social Rest, and Spiritual Rest.
Practice deep play
Winston Churchill, on the importance of what I would call deep play. He himself focussed on painting for this.
Do more
In our increasingly “VUCA” Covid world, we can feel a little powerless about the unpredictability of major events, or Black Swans, but we can “Do…
The meaning of life is to give your gift away
The purpose of life is to discover your gift. The work of life is to develop it. The meaning of life is to give your…
Be kind, always (so stop the “banter”!)
The Dalai Lama said: “My religion is kindness”, and, by the way, he is a profoundly funny human being, yet I feel sure he has…
Learning from the nuances of Autumn
Having lived the majority of my adult life in Cayman, without a noticeable Autumn, I sometimes forget that there are many nuances in Autumn.
To listen more, to share knowledge less?
This week I am attending an event online and was asked to note my speciality, to which I simply wrote: "Listening" Having come back from a short break and paused my daily posting for only the second time in a streak that has continued for well over 1400 posts, I'm...
Do not feel absolutely certain of anything
Bertrand Russell, philosopher and polymath, gave us ten commandments supplemental to those from the Bible: Do not feel absolutely certain of anything.Do not think it worthwhile to proceed by concealing evidence, for the evidence is sure to come to light.Never try to...
Be Passionately Curious, Add Value
Yesterday I finished a client meeting early, but my first train on the journey back only runs once an hour, so I got in a cab at the local train station for the ride to the mainline station to catch the next train back to London. The driver immediately asked if I'd...
Be imperturbable
Ataraxia: at·a·rax·ia (n.): "A Greek term, in which one is imperturbable, full of lucid equanimity and feeling free; tranquility or untroubled mind.” Ataraxia is a new word to me and one I already love. Thanks to Chip Conley and Christine Sperber of Modern...
Ironing, On the Edge
Where I Iron 😉 I moved to Cayman aged 24 on my own, thousands of miles from family, friends and the familiar. It was wonderful, I threw myself into work, sports, meeting new people, learning about my new home. At the same time, sometimes it felt a little...
If you can see the future, what will you do now?
If you take time to look into the future, what then will you choose to do now in order to make that a reality, an…