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One more secret to success

by | Oct 11, 2023 | Open Leadership

secret to success: Work is love made visible

Last week I wrote of  “The formula for success“, being:

The courage to start.
The discipline to focus.
The confidence to figure it out.
The patience to know progress is not always visible.
The persistence to keep going.

One more secret to success, though, is love. Yes, love. A word that is too rarely used in the context of business, though if business leaders recognised the power of love in business more, they would surely focus more on it.

I was reminded recently of the Kahlil Gibran poem about this (reposted in full below) and shared this landscaper who recently completed work on my new home, sharing this with him:

Hi Colin.

I was reminded of a poem today that made me think of you and your team.

It contains a well known phrase “work is love made visible” and then this passage:

“And what is it to work with love?
It is to weave the cloth with threads drawn from your heart, even as if your beloved were to wear that cloth.
It is to build a house with affection, even as if your beloved were to dwell in that house.”

One of your secrets is that, no matter how many jobs you do over how many years, you (and you instil it in your team) put as much care into every job as if you were doing it for your own home, your own family.

Keep doing what you do, and, once again, thank you.

Colin’s company, Tom Child Garden Landscapes, is constantly in demand and, even as a repeat customer, had to book many months ahead for them to come in and do their work. It was, as always, exceptional. Their clients (including me, for sure!) love them, they have a thriving business, their people love their work and they stay for many years and build their careers with the company.

Love is a big part of the secret of their success. How consciously do you focus on putting love into your business and your leadership in the way that Kahlil Gibran describes below and that Colin and his team do every day?

On Work

Kahlil Gibran

Then a ploughman said, Speak to us of Work.
And he answered, saying:
You work that you may keep pace with the earth and the soul of the earth.
For to be idle is to become a stranger unto the seasons, and to step out of life’s procession, that marches in majesty and proud submission towards the infinite.

When you work you are a flute through whose heart the whispering of the hours turns to music.
Which of you would be a reed, dumb and silent, when all else sings together in unison?

Always you have been told that work is a curse and labour a misfortune.
But I say to you that when you work you fulfil a part of earth’s furthest dream, assigned to you when the dream was born,
And in keeping yourself with labour you are in truth loving life,
And to love life through labour is to be intimate with life’s inmost secret.

But if you in your pain call birth an affliction and the support of the flesh a curse written upon your brow, then I answer that naught but the sweat of your brow shall wash away that which is written.

You have been told also that life is darkness, and in your weariness you echo what was said by the weary.
And I say that life is indeed darkness save when there is urge,
And all urge is blind save when there is knowledge,
And all knowledge is vain save when there is work,
And all work is empty save when there is love;
And when you work with love you bind yourself to yourself, and to one another, and to God.

And what is it to work with love?
It is to weave the cloth with threads drawn from your heart, even as if your beloved were to wear that cloth.
It is to build a house with affection, even as if your beloved were to dwell in that house.
It is to sow seeds with tenderness and reap the harvest with joy, even as if your beloved were to eat the fruit.
It is to charge all things you fashion with a breath of your own spirit,
And to know that all the blessed dead are standing about you and watching.

Often have I heard you say, as if speaking in sleep, “He who works in marble, and finds the shape of his own soul in the stone, is nobler than he who ploughs the soil.
And he who seizes the rainbow to lay it on a cloth in the likeness of man, is more than he who makes the sandals for our feet.”
But I say, not in sleep but in the overwakefulness of noontide, that the wind speaks not more sweetly to the giant oaks than to the least of all the blades of grass;
And he alone is great who turns the voice of the wind into a song made sweeter by his own loving.

Work is love made visible.
And if you cannot work with love but only with distaste, it is better that you should leave your work and sit at the gate of the temple and take alms of those who work with joy.
For if you bake bread with indifference, you bake a bitter bread that feeds but half man’s hunger.
And if you grudge the crushing of the grapes, your grudge distils a poison in the wine.
And if you sing though as angels, and love not the singing, you muffle man’s ears to the voices of the day and the voices of the night.